Monday, January 1, 2018

#79 - An Open Letter to Trump Supporters

In the final years of her life, my mother would receive a blood transfusion once a month or so to counter the effects of a pronounced loss of iron which doctors couldn't explain.   A petite and energetic woman all her life, the blood transfusions treated the symptoms of her illness, and made her feel strong again, it made her feel...alive.  However, as the effects of this energy boost would wear off, and they always did, it was a constant reminder of just how weak she had become.



I suspect that historians will look back at the Presidency of Donald J. Trump and call it out as a turning point for America.  At this point, it's too early to know how the story ends, but our wonderful country is at a critical crossroad in its very young history, and we must ask the driver of the bus to choose our path forward with care and foresight.

To Trump supporters everywhere, I must disclose that I did not vote for your candidate. While a few of his positions held some appeal for me, the majority of them did not, but more importantly, I simply believed he was horrible person, and I thought he would be a terrible president.  I won't recount all the reasons why, I shouldn't have to.  You are aware of all of them yourselves, but you have chosen to ignore them or to rationalize that they are simply not important to you, because unlike other politicians before him, Mr. Trump has given you a voice. Never before in recent American politics has one person looked inside you and shouted out to the rest of the country that you have been wronged.  Never before has any one candidate understood how angry you are, for being ignored for so many years.

I can't feel your pain. I can't walk in your shoes, no matter how hard I might try.  If I had been working all my life, but felt that no matter how hard I had pushed, or how fast I had run, that  I was just standing still, going nowhere, and if I believed the system and my country had let me down, I would feel the same.

And whatever challenges or difficulties I have faced in my lifetime, I am sure that they pale in comparison to yours.  So who am I to tell you how you should feel, or how you should think.  I have no right to do so.

So I won't.  But I will tell you, something you may not have previously considered. it's your turn to to lead.

Donald Trump helped you discover for yourselves, that you had a voice, and it had been so long, you had just about forgotten. He gave you that blood transfusion that you so badly needed to feel good again.  He was just what the doctor ordered, at least for a moment, an oh so brief moment.

And for those reasons, you may feel that you owe him a debt of gratitude.  You might believe you owe him your loyalty and your ongoing support.

Please my friends, you must understand this is not true. You do not owe him a thing, for has been courting you, using you, cosying up to you, playing to your emotions solely for his own selfish reasons, solely for the benefit of his own oversized ego, solely for his own political gain.  But because of your upbringing, because of your sense of fairness, you believe that you owe him a debt, just for helping you feel better, for giving you hope.

Unfortunately Mr. Trump has only been parroting back your symptoms to you in order to gain your loyalty, and he has done nothing to cure the illness that may consume us all.  He promised he would Make America Great Again, he would Drain the Swamp, he would Repeal And Replace, it would easy.  He would build a wall, it would solve all of our problems, and it would be beautiful.   All of this would come to be, so much so that you would get tired of winning.  

So he said, but he never actually told us how he would do this, and now, almost a year into his administration, all we see is disruption.  There are no new ideas, no clear vision, no meaningful path forward and no true leadership. There is just chaos.  Chaos everywhere we look. 

And in the process, in the blink of eye, we have risked losing the very soul of our nation which was born into the world by some of the greatest men in history and then nurtured and fed by other talented leaders for close to two and half centuries.

We want to believe that life is simple.  We go to school, we grow up, we get married, we all look for our place in society and get jobs. Some of us are lucky enough to turn those jobs into careers.  We do our best to raise our kids, we try to be good examples and teach them how they should live their lives.  We do our best to plan for retirement, and we all work hard.  Multiply these routine life challenges by 300+ million individuals or so, add in other macro concerns such as taking care of the most vulnerable among us, maintaining a complex infrastructure, defending individual rights, fighting terrorism, engaging in multiple wars, and sometimes, sometimes, when we stop to think about world we are leaving for our children, our grandchildren and all the generations to come, sometimes we work to mitigate the impact of climate change.

Layer in the inherent responsibility that comes from being the strongest country on the planet, economically and militarily, and that, historically speaking anyway, we have held the role of moral authority for the free world, and well, the simple fact is, life is just not that simple.

Of course everything I have said is as plain as day, so what's the point?

The point is, my friends, we must acknowledge the difficulties and challenges of real leadership.  The world is complex and there are no easy answers. We need leaders with intelligence and skills and experience and real ideas.  We need the best and the brightest of our people. We need leaders with the right character, temperament, fitness, and moral authority, leaders who can teach and guide, inspire and motivate, leaders who can show us, there is a better way.  And, in our imperfect democracy, we need leaders who can reach intelligent consensus with others who have different opinions and beliefs.

But most of all, most of all, we need leaders who understand in every fiber of their being, that it's not about them.  It's about everyone else.  And that the honor and privilege of successfully serving others is the ultimate reward.

So my friends I say to you that your candidate is not the medicine you need to cure your ills.  He is not the candidate to cure any of our ills.   He never was.  Deep down, you know this. No one has to tell you.  Still, you just can't find a way to let go.  But let go, you must.

None of us know what will follow in the years after Trump. No one can guarantee you that these years will be better for you and your lives will immediately improve, but you must know by now, that Donald Trump is not the answer for you, or for anyone else, and he is certainly not the answer for the country

Your time has arrived, and you must not let it slip by.  You must speak out now and tell your candidate that while you voted for him in early November of last year, you can no longer provide him support.   You will no longer provide him with the life sustaining blood transfusions he so desperately needs to keep lurching forward, in desperate search of any “win” in any undefined arena.  You must put an end to his ponzi scheme of hate and vitriol, pointing to all sorts of individuals and groups as the enemy, all to conceal the fact that this emperor is wearing no clothes. 

And as you end the blood transfusions to his ongoing campaign, he will get weaker, and you will grow stronger. And you will find your own voice

Yes, my friends, you are driving the bus. You have been doing so all along.  You just never realized it.

I understand what I ask is not easy,  It will seem unnatural, and you will have to dig deep to resurface your own strength, but please, understand that there is no loss of honor here.  Fresh air will fill your lungs and you will feel good again, for you will gradually recall, that honesty with oneself only leads to a higher dignity.  Sadly, so very sadly, our president does not understand this fundamental principle of humanity, but it is my fervid belief, that you do.  

This is why you are not like him. This is why you are so much better than him. This is why, it's your turn to lead.

This is your time. The country is waiting friends, and the whole world is watching.




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